ADULT BULLYING TOPICS

Monday, January 31, 2011

"Schadenfreude" - A Bully's Satisfaction. By ABC

Have you ever noticed a little smile sweep across your bully's face, just at the moment when you couldn't feel more infuriated? Well if you have, you are right. Real Bullies, by that I mean bullies who have a level of psychopathy, also referred to as sociopathy...

"gain satisfaction through antisocial behavior", characterized by an abnormal lack of empathy combined with strongly amoral conduct but masked by an ability to appear outwardly normal" -
-quoted from Wikipedia at this link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy#Perceptual.2Femotional_recognition_deficits

Although this resource uses the word "satisfaction" to describe what "a psychopath gains through their antisocial behavior", it is an entirely different kind of "satisfaction" than defined, and than most of us experience. A "bully's satisfaction" is a perverse form of satisfaction, being malicious in nature, rather than joyful or positive, as defined in English dictionaries.

There is actually no English word which links personal "satisfaction" together with another person's misfortune or harm. The word does not exist to most of us, being incapable of thinking in those terms, and unwilling to believe in a world where there are a few, who do. Some languages acknowledge those few, having words for them, like the German word;


"Schadenfreude"
–noun
satisfaction or pleasure felt at someone else's misfortune.
Dictionary.com Unabridged
Based on the Random House Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2011.
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— n
delight in another's misfortune
[German: from Schaden harm + Freude joy]
Collins English Dictionary - Complete & Unabridged 10th Edition
2009 © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins
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"What a fearful thing is it that any language should have a word expressive of the pleasure which men feel at the calamities of others; for the existence of the word bears testimony to the existence of the thing. And yet in more than one such a word is found. ... In the Greek epikhairekakia, in the German, 'Schadenfreude.' "
-quoted by Richard C. Trench, "On the Study of Words," 1852


So there it is! "Such a thing exists", two languages having words, thereby "bearing testimony to the existence of the thing", namely, "a bully's satisfaction", words of my own, for lack of a more fitting, existing English word.

German police tormenting Jew
"Schadenfreude" - A bully's satisfaction - Remember the meaning well, if not the word(s), because the meaning does exists, even where the word(s) does not, in the memory of many, who have witnessed it.  Only some cultures, witnessing it enough times, to name it.

I wonder if the German's came up with this word before or after the Holocaust?

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